This is my personal experience and discovery about relationship between a man and a women.
Man wish to have relationship but once they have it they just dont care it/ appreciate it.
Women wish to have relationship and when they fell so much and appreciate it.
Many times we heard a couples will complain about their companion and they plan to change that person to be a perfect or to be suitable to them. But one thing i found that people heart cannot be change just like that. I heard so many times arguement and complain about how bad this person is but his/ her partner still never give up on that relationship even may concern about life and death. Taking an example, we might heart about people violating their partner, punish them or maybe torture them but they still wont give up the relationship that started. This happen especially to women.
I'm not saying there is no good man but women did show their faithfulness to their life partner but man didn't appreciate it at all. Man didn't many wrong things and unforgivable but no matter what women will show forgiveness and hope to change the man behaviour. In fact, man behaviour will never change. Their attitude will never change at all. They may change for temporary but ended up repeating the same mistake again and again.
Now I understand how difficult Moses job to bring God's people to the promise land where he predicted that God's people will surely forget about God.
So far, I haven't see people totallt 180 degree change/ transform themselve to a better person. I believe that God can change people heart but if that person really dont want to change it, it would not change at all. In everything we do, we must take initiative first then surely God will help us to improve ourselves to be a better person.
